Friday, March 4, 2011

"Can’t we start over again?”




The first thing I want to know from you is that do you have any girlfriend or not? If your answer is yes then it may be happen with you so please read it carefully and try to imagine yourself in it.




Have you ever experienced saying these words to someone you love?
It’s very hard to say goodbye to the one you love. So you do all you can to save your relationships when it’s on the point of breaking up. It doesn’t hurt so much to the one leaving, but to the one left behind, it’s painful. That’s why you do whatever you can to hold on, to work things out, to make everything right again.



In relationships, there will always be problems, hardships and some issues that couples have to experience to grow and test their love and relationship for each other. And when these problems come up in life, there’s always the risk to carry that relationship, that’s why it results in a breakup. But there are relationships that are saliently and are able to recover from that; as a result, the couple’s love for each other becomes stronger than ever. This takes a lot of effort and commitment on both sides to decide to handle relationship.




Some fights and little misunderstandings are part of a normal relationship. But when big problems come out like cheating, lying to each other, family issues, etc. then people want breakup. And after some time, recalling all things happened in life, the couple can decide to start over again or can be live with breakup.




In the case of a girl want to leave because she’s had no longer wants to be in the relationship, and the boy is still very much in love and refuses to accept the girl’s decision, then he can ask for another chance, or ask if they can start all over again. But he has to be ready for the answer. Because after first break up girls don’t want to start again. But this can work in some cases




When the mind is already made up for break up and the cannot repair relationship then there’s no turning back.
In this case I want to mention one true line said by my one of good friend “once go in will never back.”




Sometimes relationships are very complicated. It’s not always black and white. But feelings can change, situations can change, and most important thing that people can also change. Problems are just made by boy & girls, but ultimately, we are the ones who decide. It’s okay to ask for another chance, but after all is said and done; we have to respect our partner’s decision. Because we can’t force someone to feel a certain feeling just because we want them to. We have to be ready to hear the truth and accept it, no matter how difficult. Keep this in mind, the next time you find yourself asking, “Can’t We Start Over Again?”

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